when people tell me i ‘cant’ do something or i cant this or that, what are they saying or telling me? are they
trying to control my life? are they preventing me doing something? is there some hidden law in society which is preventing me from living my life & attaining my dreams?
the situation is this. im a 30 year old bpd sufferer, whos been through a hell of alot in my life, alot of pain & trauma.
and whenever i talk about my dreams & aspirations in life that im trying to aim for. of emigration from the united kingdom. of moving to canada or the u.s…or of finding the loving partner and the girl i choose…of finding a comfortable home to live in with her…:~ these are my dreams which i want to reach, no lowering of my sites for nobody..but when i talk about them all i hear is,can’t, can’t, cant cant, cant & can’t…..
so what do they mean by this then? what are they saying? that i cant do these things? that they are trying to control me? that i wont be allowed to? that there will be certain people to stand in my way?…….
can somebody please explain what people could possibally
mean by them saying ‘cant’ to me? and how i can deal with it without becoming very angry? cheers
thankyou for your answers so far, ! i just get confused and think, ‘are they preventing me..?’…if so what should i do? how should i react?..
